Let’s Talk About Names: Minna
I had grown into my name, and it suited me. Trust, however, that had I found a better name along the way, I would have snapped it up in a heartbeat, and to hell with anyone who judged me for doing so.
I had grown into my name, and it suited me. Trust, however, that had I found a better name along the way, I would have snapped it up in a heartbeat, and to hell with anyone who judged me for doing so.
I’m attached to my name because of the stories that come with it and because of the perspective they’ve given me on the world.
If there’s a single name that feels the least “real,” the most connected to social structures, cis-het-patriarchy and its assumptions, it’s the one I was given at birth.
While we’re demanding that women be treated equitably in this society, we’re saying that it’s up to women — still — to make the “proper” choice, like not taking their husbands’ names, to legitimize feminism.
I became comfortable with my name, because I realized I could have easily been deprived of it.
Bruno Mars on why he stopped using his Puerto Rican father’s last name and took a stage name instead.
Who am I really, if I change with every person I meet? Maybe we are all events, shaped by circumstance and those around us. All choose your own adventures for our readers’ liking.
The relationship individuals have with their names is influenced by myriad individual and cultural experiences, alongside those that are social and political.
The thing about names – including nicknames, legal names and surnames – is that they all belong to you, yet they interact with the world.
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